i feel like i am at the end of the rope and this is my only option.  i am 23 years old and a mother of two.  i am a student and i have a full time job.  i am not getting any kind of support or financial assitance from my childrens father.  i dont know what to do.  i am behind on my bills and barely able to pay my bills.  i have two children to take care of. i can barely take care of myself but i know that i have to put them first.  please i really need some help. i dont even know if i am supposed to put this kind of information on here but i am desperate and i dont know what else to do.  i just want to be able to take care of my children and finish school so that i will be financially stable and wont have to worry about how i am going to survive.  please help me, i dont know what else to do. my childrens father told me that if he had to neglect his own children (he is neglecting) he is going to take care of himself only and that i am going to have to handle it on my own.  really something for a father to say.  i am struggling and i really need help. i am not getting any kind of assistance from anything or anyone. i cant find anyone to help me and noone is offering.